Don't be late!

Family plays such an important role in anyone's life ! Does it not?

               

                              Family is that one reason because of which we exist. It is that unbreakable bond which keeps us going no matter how difficult may life become for us. No one stays but family does ! Till the end !And hence no matter how hard it becomes to carry on relations with them , we have still got to make efforts to make it work with them.

No matter how worse an argument may get, but you can't just loose faith in them . One is not supposed to ! One mustn't ! But sadly, many of us do ; we stop showing care for them and start taking them for granted, often resulting in the other person slipping away . And too frequent , our ego is too big to ask for forgiveness from a loved one too, we let them go away from us. And soon they disappear from our lives and we are left all alone and till the time we realize that , it is just too late . We are left with no one but just ourselves and we sulk alone in our old age and then die regretting in our last moments. Or we talk to them at parties or get-togethers or some traditional family function and we decide on speaking to them as formally as possible so that they feel the difference . So that they realize their mistake ! And maybe someday they will . But maybe that never happens and you waste your precious time over something that wasn't even relevant . Why ! Why can't we be the one asking for forgiveness when something goes wrong, why can't we adjust a little to their preferences , why can't we just not make our lives complicated and our relations difficult? Why do we loose faith in them ? Why do we drift apart from them? Why do we stop caring enough ? Because maybe we are too scared of any kind of relationships. Because maybe we don't want anyone to take care of us. Because maybe we want to show the world that we are so independent ! 

Maybe that is a good idea but regretting that you could also have a healthy family isn't . 

Don't be scared to tell them that you love them because maybe if you don't express now, it'll be too late. So don't be late and just hug it out .Who knows what will happen tomorrow !

Trusting your close ones !

In life we often misunderstand things and people, we often don't look to the the other side of the story and we often just neglect that side of the story.
We don't ask them about it but rather we spy on them to dig out some information from them. We trouble ourselves with what we come to know from unreliable sources. We don't even care to inquire if what we know holds any water . We just start trusting our own instincts and don't even give the person a chance to explain anything or say anything in his/her defense. 
And days later or even months later, when we realize that what we assumed was a complete misunderstanding, we are left to just sit and wonder ,"If only I could go back in time and re-analyse the situation, I would end up being happier!"
Just one single direct question to the concerned person itself would've avoided all the pain , all the drama, you had to go through to investigate about the other person!
All you got to do is TRUST the other person wholly.
And well, if you get hurt along the way of trusting him/her at least you won't be the one who will be at fault ! 
So start to learn trusting people! At least those who are close to you !

Dating and marrying ultimately! Why !?

I was at a wedding yesterday and after I saw whole of it I thought ,"Okay now those things are actually out-dated that if someone is dating you...they have got to be your life partner ultimately..
Life is full of choices and well yes marriage is a BIG choice itself!
You might have loved someone in your past more than you will ever love anyone in the future but it still isn't necessary that you decide on spending the rest of your life sticking to that one person whom you adored back then.
There's is no point in not moving on.
The point is not when to marry but whom to marry and it will always be! I mean, come on, you just cannot be with someone whom you aren't really sure about, for your entire life!"
My point is, why compromise ! 
Wait for the right person but not so much that you start feeling old. In fact, prefer not marrying at all. 
People might think that I have a weird point of view but seriously ! Think about it !
Is it a compulsion that you HAVE to marry and have kids ? Don't you have a separate life from the family life everyone is stuck in! 
Do animals marry? No! 
Why! Because they know that nothing is meant for forever and they do not complicate their lives by doing whatever we do.
And if you marry then marry someone whom you really adore and the one who respects you as well as your freedom and someone who will love you and support you through the hardships of life like a friend and a guide. Because it is important that you live your life on your terms and conditions.
After all it is your life and you mustn't be forced ,for something you aren't ready for , by the society.

Why Pretend !

Well I don't totally disagree that true love exists  but I would rather just simply state that  love IS Over Rated !! 
The feeling of being that special one for someone is just not comparable  but what's the point if  that very person is not the ONE ! What if he/she is the wrong one !?
In a relationship , there is always one person who loves the other a bit less ! The feeling of being in love is though really heavenly but the reality that it does not stay sucks!
Most of the times people are afraid to confess their true feelings about each other because love has deep meaning and is very pure and even though people don't feel love for someone they would just fake it so that they don't hurt their partner ! But as soon as the feeling grows they start drifting and finally they either lie, cheat or just walk away ! The truth is ugly and hard to face ! People come and they go ! There's is just attraction ! Love does not exists !
What stays if you ask ....is your own self ! Your identity! What you are ! Who you are ! What are you from the inside !
And well your identity seems to change over a breakup, over a new person or over getting hurt ! What we forget is... people in life are temporary ! And well why should we change our own self  for something which is just temporary ! ? 
Love is temporary ! Change is forever ! So we better be our own selves ! Why pretend to be something we are not ! Why lie ! Why cheat ! Why fake ! Why change !
Life would be so much easier if only we stayed the way we are..if only we be the people we were raised to be! If only we stop PRETENDING !

Travelling !

Well there are people who like to sleep in their cozy beds at night and look forward for a new day to start so that they can go back to work in the morning. These are people who are always worried about the future. They tend to ignore the rest of the world and their choices are limited ! But no ! THAT"S so not me ! I love going places ,exploring the nature , and just traveling traveling and a lot of traveling...! I really just hate ROUTINE LIFE ! Even when everyone's sleeping and dreaming about stuff in the future , I prefer driving upto some place where insects can be heard and where the city lights haven't reached yet....and where I feel free ! Where silence is all around .....and darkness scares people away!  I feel like embracing it all! And well, yes, I feel like going home too but the divine experience you get from that silence , the energy you gain and the things you learn about yourself ;no other thing in the world can give you all that ! If I had enough money what would I not do  or rather I would say, where would I not go ! I want to explore every damn state in the world...! Natural beauty as well as the man-made towns....EVERYTHING ! If I ever got a choice between doing all this and studying further I would not even give a second thought for continuing my studies!  I just wish I have enough time to leave this world so that I can actually chase after my dream ! :D

A spooky experience

People may think that it would be really stupid of me if I exclaimed that I have started believing in the supernatural....spirits....ghosts ! But well, I am going to state this anyway ! ""Yes! I do believe in them...! Cause I believe what I see and yes I HAVE felt their presence !
Like the usual days when power is cut off, I lighted up a few candles in my room. It was still evening and there was nothing weird or suspicious  about me having a sudden urge to take a bath in my dad's studio's washroom ! And so I was there with a pin-drop silence in the studio with a torch and darkness surrounding me. As soon as I undressed and turned on the shower I felt like someone was touching me but then I reassured myself that it was nothing but my stupid brain making things up ! Soon soap was all over my body and i could feel the hot water of the shower relaxing every inch of me! It was really pleasurable ! It had been a rough day for me...my head was over crowded with emotion ! 
I thought I felt someone touching me again and this time I was scared..!  I ignored it and continued to shower. But then I heard something. So I lowered the water pressure to listen what wasiit. Whatever those noises were they couldn't be avoided.I could clearly hear someone calling out my name . And this scared me to the core of my heart . My heart started pounding faster and even faster. I started hurrying to remove the soap . Obviously I couldn't run out naked ! I started praying but the noises grew. I could hear screams, children crying, mourns and mixed sounds of animals. I wrapped the towel around me and I began to run ! It was so loud that I felt like someone was playing them up all inside my ear. AS i was running , my heartbeat rate continued to rise and I started running out of breath. I was badly sweating! I ran out of the room as fast as I could ....putting on a gown on my way to the door and as soon as i reached the door I lost my sense and I fainted.I opened up my eyes 2 hours later realizing I was already in my proper clothes, my hair all dried up and realizing that the power hadn't been cut off since the morning. I actually was horrified to realize that all cause whatever happened I am sure , it did happen! 
People may not believe it but this incidence made me believe that there is something , in fact a LOT that we do not know about Earth , God and existence .

Over again !

Mia was an innocent kid until she got dumped by the guy of her dreams.  Fair , tall and utterly handsome.! He was the kind who would rarely be liked by all the other girls around.  He was self centered and arrogant but she didn't car. And she loved him as much as anyone could ever love but he walked away giving her silly reasons.  
She became bold and outgoing.  Got into the wrong people and showed him she could be happy without him and that's when he realizes that he made the right choice leaving her! 
She shows him that she is strong but she dies everyday seeing him with other people and she still keeps on wishing that he comes back someday .
She tries to move on and to date other guys but at the end of the day all she thinks about is the same guy who didn't value what he had. The same guy who left her half way !  She is always unsatisfied and she goes to bed everyday shedding tears for what she had lost. She feels unloved , cheated, betrayed and useless! 
"IT was just perfect! Was I not good enough?  Am I not that pretty ? Am I undesirable! " is all that she wonders !
She keeps thinking ! But universe had a different way of answering her prayers. 
She went through a lot right ! She didn't know a single thing about relationships and about life ! Now she did ! 
She couldn't figure out what was going on in his life any way ! Nor she was being able to figure out her own!
Her life sucked ! It didn't!  But that's how she felt about it!
Whoever she trusted ever in life betrayed her ...her father !  Her friends!  Her best friend!  And now this guy she could give up on life for !
And now after all this , she overcame it all and held herself tight and became mature enough to handle herself. .! She , in middle of all this drama, grew up ! This was definitely a big big change !Our little girl grew up!  She now believed true love does not exist . Everyone who says they love someone they lie!  Everything that is told should not be just believed!  World is full of frauds and liars.
Love was just a game which was to be played till one gets bored of it.
Time passed. And well universe wanted to turn her into something else this time ! All her prayers came to reality ! The guy whose memories wouldn't go away ..came back to her giving her everything she had wished for . HISTORY repeated itself over again. The guy who dumped her back then came back to her life. Her views about everything changed over again. She gathered all her heart's broken pieces and made herself believe in him over again.  He made her go head over heels in love with him over again . She started to love him even more again . And well, her dreams broke into a zillion pieces the same way over again.  Believe it or not ! Shit like this happens and you are just left in the middle of nowhere cursing your own self ! People! You just have no right to play with someone's heart ! Don't play games! Grow up!