Don't be late!

Family plays such an important role in anyone's life ! Does it not?

               

                              Family is that one reason because of which we exist. It is that unbreakable bond which keeps us going no matter how difficult may life become for us. No one stays but family does ! Till the end !And hence no matter how hard it becomes to carry on relations with them , we have still got to make efforts to make it work with them.

No matter how worse an argument may get, but you can't just loose faith in them . One is not supposed to ! One mustn't ! But sadly, many of us do ; we stop showing care for them and start taking them for granted, often resulting in the other person slipping away . And too frequent , our ego is too big to ask for forgiveness from a loved one too, we let them go away from us. And soon they disappear from our lives and we are left all alone and till the time we realize that , it is just too late . We are left with no one but just ourselves and we sulk alone in our old age and then die regretting in our last moments. Or we talk to them at parties or get-togethers or some traditional family function and we decide on speaking to them as formally as possible so that they feel the difference . So that they realize their mistake ! And maybe someday they will . But maybe that never happens and you waste your precious time over something that wasn't even relevant . Why ! Why can't we be the one asking for forgiveness when something goes wrong, why can't we adjust a little to their preferences , why can't we just not make our lives complicated and our relations difficult? Why do we loose faith in them ? Why do we drift apart from them? Why do we stop caring enough ? Because maybe we are too scared of any kind of relationships. Because maybe we don't want anyone to take care of us. Because maybe we want to show the world that we are so independent ! 

Maybe that is a good idea but regretting that you could also have a healthy family isn't . 

Don't be scared to tell them that you love them because maybe if you don't express now, it'll be too late. So don't be late and just hug it out .Who knows what will happen tomorrow !

Why Pretend !

Well I don't totally disagree that true love exists  but I would rather just simply state that  love IS Over Rated !! 
The feeling of being that special one for someone is just not comparable  but what's the point if  that very person is not the ONE ! What if he/she is the wrong one !?
In a relationship , there is always one person who loves the other a bit less ! The feeling of being in love is though really heavenly but the reality that it does not stay sucks!
Most of the times people are afraid to confess their true feelings about each other because love has deep meaning and is very pure and even though people don't feel love for someone they would just fake it so that they don't hurt their partner ! But as soon as the feeling grows they start drifting and finally they either lie, cheat or just walk away ! The truth is ugly and hard to face ! People come and they go ! There's is just attraction ! Love does not exists !
What stays if you ask ....is your own self ! Your identity! What you are ! Who you are ! What are you from the inside !
And well your identity seems to change over a breakup, over a new person or over getting hurt ! What we forget is... people in life are temporary ! And well why should we change our own self  for something which is just temporary ! ? 
Love is temporary ! Change is forever ! So we better be our own selves ! Why pretend to be something we are not ! Why lie ! Why cheat ! Why fake ! Why change !
Life would be so much easier if only we stayed the way we are..if only we be the people we were raised to be! If only we stop PRETENDING !

Travelling !

Well there are people who like to sleep in their cozy beds at night and look forward for a new day to start so that they can go back to work in the morning. These are people who are always worried about the future. They tend to ignore the rest of the world and their choices are limited ! But no ! THAT"S so not me ! I love going places ,exploring the nature , and just traveling traveling and a lot of traveling...! I really just hate ROUTINE LIFE ! Even when everyone's sleeping and dreaming about stuff in the future , I prefer driving upto some place where insects can be heard and where the city lights haven't reached yet....and where I feel free ! Where silence is all around .....and darkness scares people away!  I feel like embracing it all! And well, yes, I feel like going home too but the divine experience you get from that silence , the energy you gain and the things you learn about yourself ;no other thing in the world can give you all that ! If I had enough money what would I not do  or rather I would say, where would I not go ! I want to explore every damn state in the world...! Natural beauty as well as the man-made towns....EVERYTHING ! If I ever got a choice between doing all this and studying further I would not even give a second thought for continuing my studies!  I just wish I have enough time to leave this world so that I can actually chase after my dream ! :D

Grey's Anatomy and men !

Men don't realize how hard they make it for us dealing with relationships.
The previous day I was watching "Greys Anatomy" , the episode in which Derek chooses his ex wife , Anisson over his girlfriend Meredith, who loves him with her every inch ! He chooses his ex-wife who slept with his own best friend a short time back . He couldn't decide what he actually wanted and he broke up with Meredith , which meant getting back with Anisson but well, he was confused here! He wasn't still into Anisson! All the time they spent together he never stopped thinking about Meredith . It seems he wants them both ! OH !! Seriously ! Messing up with both , Anisson's as well as Meredith's feelings over his own stupid feelings for both of them was just so unacceptable ! Couldn't he just take a simple easy decision ! Turning Meredith's life upside down over nothing wan't fair ! Really ! He ultimately ends up with Meredith ! But well....guys !!You don't get to mess around with our feelings just because you are a bit unsure of what you really want ! 
Why do you complicate stuff that much ! Either you want something or you don't ! There are no other things added to that ! 
Take control ! And try and act a bit more mature !